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My objective is to share information which is of interest to people who are looking to mediate issues 
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     <h2 class="date-header">Friday, 24 July 2009</h2>
      
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<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><SPAN 
style="mso-spacerun: yes">&nbsp;</SPAN>As a member of a BNI® Chapter I’m 
learning about power teams which basically encompasses professionals serving the 
same clients but in different ways.<SPAN style="mso-spacerun: yes">&nbsp; 
</SPAN>The beauty of this concept is one place shopping. In order to form a 
power team there has to be trust and a willingness to utilize word of mouth 
referrals.<SPAN style="mso-spacerun: yes">&nbsp; </SPAN>In referrals there are a 
giver, a receiver, and a subject (a client). An example in a mediation context 
is a family law practice. A mediator involved in family law wanting to serve as 
a hub may develop a relationship with family or child counselors, tax preparers, 
real estate professionals, and perhaps family law attorneys to whom the mediator 
refers his clients if the need arises.</P>
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<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt">In BNI there is a concept of 
givers gain which means for every referral one gives it’s highly probable one 
will get and more. Isn’t that what we need? </P>
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<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt">Great in theory in practice it 
takes a lot of work. For example in a BNI chapter I spend 90 minutes each week 
meeting with my group. To practice what I preach I am told that I should be 
spending an additional 1 to 2 hours in working on getting referrals for my 
chapter mates and attending at least one other networking group meeting. That’s 
a significant investment in time and effort. I believe that having a power team 
within such a chapter will result in a better ROI so I am actively looking for a 
way to build such a group within and without my Chapter.<SPAN 
style="mso-spacerun: yes">&nbsp; </SPAN>Being in a leadership position within a 
networking group is also an advantage because people see you every week and can 
thus form a more thorough understanding of who you are and what you do. I am a 
chapter trainer. Here I am speaking as a mediator but no matter what you do 
networking is currently a must. Public advertising does not seem to do much for 
mediators. Expanding our circle of relationships to other professions who deal 
with the same clients but in different ways appears to be a better 
approach.<SPAN style="mso-spacerun: yes">&nbsp; </SPAN>Time will tell.</P>
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