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     <h2 class="date-header">Monday, 10 August 2009</h2>
      
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    <h3 class="post-title">Conflict and Project Management</h3>
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<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt; TEXT-ALIGN: center" 
align=center>Construction Project Team Conflicts and Project Management</P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt; TEXT-ALIGN: center" 
align=center>(First part of a multi-part series)</P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><o:p>&nbsp;</o:p></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt">Wherever there are 
multifunctional and owner contractor project teams there are conflicts. In my 
industry (pharmaceutical) and in the literature I have often heard that Project 
Managers (PM) spend an enormous amount of time dealing with conflict. Is it 
possible just the time drain on Project Managers explains why too many projects 
run into budget, quality, schedule, and performance problems. Would PM be better 
off if their time spent in conflict resolution was significantly? In order for 
this to happen a paradigm shift is necessary and available.<SPAN 
style="mso-spacerun: yes">&nbsp; </SPAN>There are trained professionals who can 
deal with avoidance, prevention, and resolution of conflict. These professionals 
are facilitators, mediators, and arbitrators trained in the field of 
negotiation, problem solving, using processes specifically designed for dealing 
with conflict.</P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><o:p>&nbsp;</o:p></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt">Think about it, if PM’s spend 
more than 50% of their time dealing with conflict it’s that much less time 
dealing with increasingly sophisticated technology, ever more demanding quality 
requirements, higher and higher performance expectations, increasingly onerous 
time and budget constraints. 50+% time spent on people issues is akin to going 
into a race with one leg tied behind ones back.</P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><o:p>&nbsp;</o:p></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt">What is it which keeps 
managements from instituting and project teams from embracing conflict 
resolution specialists? Part of the problem is lack of understanding of what 
conflict specialists bring to the table. They bring:</P>
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style="mso-list: Ignore">·<SPAN 
style="FONT: 7pt 'Times New Roman'">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; 
</SPAN></SPAN></SPAN>Objectivity with no vested interest in the outcome.</P>
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style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt 0.25in; TEXT-INDENT: -0.25in; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo2; tab-stops: list .25in"><SPAN 
style="FONT-FAMILY: Symbol; mso-fareast-font-family: Symbol; mso-bidi-font-family: Symbol"><SPAN 
style="mso-list: Ignore">·<SPAN 
style="FONT: 7pt 'Times New Roman'">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; 
</SPAN></SPAN></SPAN>Experience and proficiency in processes specifically 
designed to deal with conflict used with great success in many areas.</P>
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style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt 0.25in; TEXT-INDENT: -0.25in; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo2; tab-stops: list .25in"><SPAN 
style="FONT-FAMILY: Symbol; mso-fareast-font-family: Symbol; mso-bidi-font-family: Symbol"><SPAN 
style="mso-list: Ignore">·<SPAN 
style="FONT: 7pt 'Times New Roman'">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; 
</SPAN></SPAN></SPAN>Exploitation of multiple alternatives which is a condition 
often missing in disagreements where “positions are taken as attitudes 
harden.</P>
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style="mso-list: Ignore">·<SPAN 
style="FONT: 7pt 'Times New Roman'">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; 
</SPAN></SPAN></SPAN>Confidentiality which allows parties to share with the 
intercessor that which they would not disclose to one another and is critical to 
provide context in a negotiation.</P>
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style="mso-list: Ignore">·<SPAN 
style="FONT: 7pt 'Times New Roman'">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; 
</SPAN></SPAN></SPAN>Focus on the issues rather than the emotions.</P>
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style="mso-list: Ignore">·<SPAN 
style="FONT: 7pt 'Times New Roman'">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; 
</SPAN></SPAN></SPAN>Provides safeguards against power imbalances.</P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><o:p>&nbsp;</o:p></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt">What is the origin of conflict in 
teams</P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><o:p>&nbsp;</o:p></P>
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  <LI class=MsoNormal 
  style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt; mso-list: l1 level1 lfo1; tab-stops: list .5in">Teams 
  are multidisciplinary. Each specialty brings its own perspective into a 
  project. There may be inherent conflict built into the differences in 
  perspective.</LI>
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  style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt; mso-list: l1 level1 lfo1; tab-stops: list .5in">Conflict 
  is present in every human endeavor and projects are no different.</LI>
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  style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt; mso-list: l1 level1 lfo1; tab-stops: list .5in">Teams 
  have not only loyalties to the team they also have loyalties to the functional 
  area they come from. Team members know hopeful and full well they are highly 
  likely to return to their functional area after a project. Functional areas 
  are jealous guardians of their turf. </LI>
  <LI class=MsoNormal 
  style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt; mso-list: l1 level1 lfo1; tab-stops: list .5in">Although 
  team members report to the team leader they also report to their functional 
  managers. Functional managers may not agree with what nor how a team is 
  performing its tasks and this may be reflected in a team members 
  performance.</LI>
  <LI class=MsoNormal 
  style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt; mso-list: l1 level1 lfo1; tab-stops: list .5in">Although 
  owner and contractor teams share in a common objective, execute the project 
  successfully, members of the owner and contractor teams often deal with issues 
  veiled in secrecy, sharing data selectively while pursuing differing 
  strategies aligned with objectives more closely held within their own 
  organizations. This adversarial collaboration still strives to achieve project 
  success. Internally for example, QA may have a strategy which emphasizes 
  stricter Good Documentation Practices, while TS or Automation may strongly 
  believe there is a need to move on to avoid project delay and cost overruns. 
  Putting the PM in the middle of this clash of priorities is very time 
  consuming.</LI>
  <LI class=MsoNormal 
  style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt; mso-list: l1 level1 lfo1; tab-stops: list .5in">For 
  both Owners and Contractors resource levels and even individuals involved in 
  project execution can be contentious. Functional managers can and do decide 
  who is assigned, for how long, and levels of participation particularly in 
  smaller projects (&lt;$10MM). In these instances and many others conflict can 
  arise directly with the PM.</LI></OL></STRONG>
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