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My objective is to share information which is of interest to people who are looking to mediate issues 
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     <h2 class="date-header">Saturday, 31 October 2009</h2>
      
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<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt">As my volunteers and I progress 
in creating videos for Community television in <?xml:namespace prefix = st1 ns = 
"urn:schemas-microsoft-com:office:smarttags" /><st1:State w:st="on"><st1:place 
w:st="on">Hawaii</st1:place></st1:State> on avoiding, preventing, resolving 
conflict using peaceful means I continue to learn. In our latest panel 
discussion the clear benefit of mediation and facilitation was yet again 
highlighted – choice.<SPAN style="mso-spacerun: yes">&nbsp; </SPAN>As the scope 
of choice develops in our series the element of choice is being examined in the 
context of WorkTeams. Organizations of all sizes use WorkTeams for a variety of 
projects both internally and in concert with outsiders like contractors in an 
owner-contractor relationship. We created a vignette highlighting a variety of 
disputes, work as well as personal related, and our panel members started to 
home in on choice between a conflict or resolution environment. In our vignette 
the WorkTeam operated in a conflict environment. However, if they had or would 
take the proper steps they could operate in a resolution environment. This moved 
to the topic of creation of either environment. In our vignette the WorkTeam 
operated in a conflict environment as they did not have the personal skills nor 
the processes to deal with conflict. The panel pointed out that in order for the 
environment to be a resolution environment both processes and skills in such 
areas as mediation and facilitation were required. In addition an understanding 
of how each member of a team is going to have to interact is necessary along 
with ground rules. Senior management support for a resolution environment is 
critical.</P>
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<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt">We use a simple example in our 
vignette. The WorkTeam has a conflict between technical personnel and QA in 
document review and approval. They are in conflict as members of the team play 
out power roles – QA using its power to require changes or refuse to approve, 
technical personnel attacking the Team Leader for not challenging QA – and 
individuals attacking each other for personal reasons. Were they operating in a 
resolution environment they would be stepping in to address the issues by 
committing to resolution of the document problems in a collaborative manner.</P>
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<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt">In the conflict environment it 
will probably take senior management intervention (forcing the team to give up 
choice) to force a resolution while in a collaborative and resolution based 
environment the team can continue to maintain choice. Part of the resolution 
environment clearly takes the skills inherent to win-win negotiations as well as 
those of a mediator or facilitator.</P>
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