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     <h2 class="date-header">Wednesday, 01 July 2009</h2>
      
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    <h3 class="post-title">Workplace Discrimination</h3>
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<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt">Workplace discrimination claims 
and defenses involve specific laws. Attorney involvement is pretty high. The 
process of resolution of a discrimination case can be a long one. An employee 
has often been let go, fired, or moved on. Emotional tolls on both sides can be 
high.<SPAN style="mso-spacerun: yes">&nbsp; </SPAN>Ok emotions are probably not 
as high a level as in divorce but emotions are still in play.<SPAN 
style="mso-spacerun: yes">&nbsp; </SPAN>Mediation offers a great chance to 
resolve claims rapidly.<SPAN style="mso-spacerun: yes">&nbsp; </SPAN>As a 
mediator in employment discrimination cases, using a facilitative approach, with 
attorneys representing Plaintiff and Defendant, I find it challenging to gauge 
and act on whether the road to meaningful negotiation hinges on recitation of 
the facts by aggrieved party and rebuttal by the employer or whether 
facilitating discussion about the legal basis of the claim and defense will be 
more productive.</P>
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style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt 0.25in; TEXT-INDENT: -0.25in; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; tab-stops: list .25in"><SPAN 
style="mso-list: Ignore">1.<SPAN 
style="FONT: 7pt 'Times New Roman'">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; 
</SPAN></SPAN>If I ask the attorneys to explain there respective positions they 
jockey to present their adversarial themes. This may help their clients to 
better understand the legal basis their attorneys are advocating. In addition I 
find it is more likely the attorneys will more quickly disclose their respective 
demand and counter offer (if there is one). I think attorneys find making an 
offer and counteroffer more natural after they present what their case is about. 
They do sprinkle in certain facts favorable to their clients position. They 
provide a framework for a case. The main challenge for a mediator can sometimes 
be to keep them from interrupting each other.</P>
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style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt 0.25in; TEXT-INDENT: -0.25in; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; tab-stops: list .25in"><SPAN 
style="mso-list: Ignore">2.<SPAN 
style="FONT: 7pt 'Times New Roman'">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; 
</SPAN></SPAN>On the other hand if the approach taken is to ask Plaintiff client 
to state their claim it is not unusual for them to put their case forward with a 
lot of emotion and focus on the wrongs perpetrated on them by their opponent, 
for example the supervisor.<SPAN style="mso-spacerun: yes">&nbsp; </SPAN>They 
focus on attacking their opponent, often personally.<SPAN 
style="mso-spacerun: yes">&nbsp; </SPAN>These personal attacks may sour the road 
to progress. However, venting in this fashion may be just what one side or the 
other needs before productively negotiating.</P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><o:p>&nbsp;</o:p></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt">I believe mediators and attorneys 
will debate whether and which approach is more productive.<SPAN 
style="mso-spacerun: yes">&nbsp; </SPAN>Maybe it is case specific. Maybe a 
balance can be struck between the two, the legal and a client’s perspectives. 
There may be other approaches.<SPAN style="mso-spacerun: yes">&nbsp; </SPAN>One 
more note, when it comes to the money, once the parties know there is an offer 
and counter-offer a channel to resolution opens wider even when the sums are 
separated by orders of magnitude (e.g. P asking for $100K while D 
counter-offering $2K). The challenge for the mediator then is to bridge the 
monetary chasm (ideas on how to do that will have to be the subject of another 
blog entry).</P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><o:p>&nbsp;</o:p></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt">One potential clue where to start 
is who’s doing the talking for each side.<SPAN style="mso-spacerun: yes">&nbsp; 
</SPAN>If it’s the attorneys, they will be advocating and the opposing attorney 
will put forward his clients legal position. The result will be an issue or 
issues.<SPAN style="mso-spacerun: yes">&nbsp; </SPAN>Should a legal exchange 
take place a challenge for a mediator, especially one not trained in the law 
becomes, what does a mediator do with the information? </P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><o:p>&nbsp;</o:p></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt">One simple approach is for the 
mediator to summarize what each attorney has advocated and convert the legal 
difference in interpretation into a common problem statement.<SPAN 
style="mso-spacerun: yes">&nbsp; </SPAN>For example in a disability claim one 
attorney may argue the condition is a disability covered by the laws while the 
other argues it is not. This is a basic issue having an impact on moving to 
negotiation. To facilitate movement towards negotiation a mediator might say 
“Plaintiff’s case is that their condition is a disability covered under …. while 
Defendant’s case is that Plaintiffs condition is not a disability covered under 
… In order to reach agreement each side is going to have to consider to what 
extent this difference in legal opinion influences their negotiating position.” 
As always the decision whether to continue further discussion on an issue like 
the example is left to the clients and their attorneys but at least an issue is 
aired in front of the clients with an opening for the attorneys to continue 
their discussion if they feel it is productive.</P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><o:p>&nbsp;</o:p></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt">When there are multiple legal 
questions and issues involved in these kinds of cases it becomes more difficult 
to just simply summarize and identify a legal difference as an issue. </P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><o:p>&nbsp;</o:p></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt">If, however, it’s clear the 
client acting under the attorneys advice is going to do the talking about the 
grievances they have I stand ready to listen to understand their perspective, 
reframe, reflect, and reduce their respective positions into a common problem 
statement. Using the same example, a disability discrimination case, I might 
reduce what is stated into “Plaintiff is claiming they were fired because of 
their disability while the Defendant is claiming the firing was solely because 
of poor performance. Plaintiff is requesting money damages of $... and 
reinstatement while Defendant is offering $... but not offering reinstatement.” 
In addition I have to be ready to deal with the character issues which will come 
up about the other side’s client.<SPAN style="mso-spacerun: yes">&nbsp; 
</SPAN>Positions can get dug in worse when there are character attack salvos 
between the parties. Part of the mediators challenge is to know, and whether to 
react to personal attacks which become more global in order to keep a client 
focused on their discrimination claim.<SPAN style="mso-spacerun: yes">&nbsp; 
</SPAN>It also becomes a question as to what to do with the personal attack 
information?<SPAN style="mso-spacerun: yes">&nbsp; </SPAN>For example if a party 
recites their opponent is a dirty no good rat who should be fired and banned 
form ever working or supervising again and he also cheats on his wife, it may 
not be a good idea for the mediator to reflect that sentiment .<SPAN 
style="mso-spacerun: yes">&nbsp; </SPAN>On the other hand failure by the 
mediator to reflect these sentiments may offend the reciting party to the point 
of intransigence.</P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><o:p>&nbsp;</o:p></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt">If a mediator is like me, 
predominantly a problem solver, in workplace discrimination cases involving 
attorneys one approach may be:</P>
<P class=MsoNormal 
style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt 0.25in; TEXT-INDENT: -0.25in; mso-list: l1 level1 lfo2; tab-stops: list .25in"><SPAN 
style="FONT-FAMILY: Symbol; mso-fareast-font-family: Symbol; mso-bidi-font-family: Symbol"><SPAN 
style="mso-list: Ignore">·<SPAN 
style="FONT: 7pt 'Times New Roman'">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; 
</SPAN></SPAN></SPAN>Where are we in the process of resolution of this 
claim?</P>
<P class=MsoNormal 
style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt 0.25in; TEXT-INDENT: -0.25in; mso-list: l1 level1 lfo2; tab-stops: list .25in"><SPAN 
style="FONT-FAMILY: Symbol; mso-fareast-font-family: Symbol; mso-bidi-font-family: Symbol"><SPAN 
style="mso-list: Ignore">·<SPAN 
style="FONT: 7pt 'Times New Roman'">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; 
</SPAN></SPAN></SPAN>Is the attorneys or the client going to do the speaking and 
who is going to do the negotiation?</P>
<P class=MsoNormal 
style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt 0.25in; TEXT-INDENT: -0.25in; mso-list: l1 level1 lfo2; tab-stops: list .25in"><SPAN 
style="FONT-FAMILY: Symbol; mso-fareast-font-family: Symbol; mso-bidi-font-family: Symbol"><SPAN 
style="mso-list: Ignore">·<SPAN 
style="FONT: 7pt 'Times New Roman'">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; 
</SPAN></SPAN></SPAN>If the client is going to speak proceed to an exchange of 
grievances.</P>
<P class=MsoNormal 
style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt 0.25in; TEXT-INDENT: -0.25in; mso-list: l1 level1 lfo2; tab-stops: list .25in"><SPAN 
style="FONT-FAMILY: Symbol; mso-fareast-font-family: Symbol; mso-bidi-font-family: Symbol"><SPAN 
style="mso-list: Ignore">·<SPAN 
style="FONT: 7pt 'Times New Roman'">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; 
</SPAN></SPAN></SPAN>If it is the attorneys what is the theme or the legal basis 
for the claim and what issues do they see in each others claims?<SPAN 
style="mso-spacerun: yes">&nbsp; </SPAN>Let the discussion at least get to the 
issue identification stage. </P>
<P class=MsoNormal 
style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt 0.25in; TEXT-INDENT: -0.25in; mso-list: l1 level1 lfo2; tab-stops: list .25in"><SPAN 
style="FONT-FAMILY: Symbol; mso-fareast-font-family: Symbol; mso-bidi-font-family: Symbol"><SPAN 
style="mso-list: Ignore">·<SPAN 
style="FONT: 7pt 'Times New Roman'">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; 
</SPAN></SPAN></SPAN>Is there a money damages claim and counteroffer and 
authority to accept or reject offers and counteroffers?</P>
<P class=MsoNormal 
style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt 0.25in; TEXT-INDENT: -0.25in; mso-list: l1 level1 lfo2; tab-stops: list .25in"><SPAN 
style="FONT-FAMILY: Symbol; mso-fareast-font-family: Symbol; mso-bidi-font-family: Symbol"><SPAN 
style="mso-list: Ignore">·<SPAN 
style="FONT: 7pt 'Times New Roman'">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; 
</SPAN></SPAN></SPAN>If the parties and their attorneys acknowledge the problem 
statements are indeed reflective of their legal positions determine with each 
side whether there is any point in delving further into the legal issue as a 
means of moving towards negotiation. </P>
<P class=MsoNormal 
style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt 0.25in; TEXT-INDENT: -0.25in; mso-list: l1 level1 lfo2; tab-stops: list .25in"><SPAN 
style="FONT-FAMILY: Symbol; mso-fareast-font-family: Symbol; mso-bidi-font-family: Symbol"><SPAN 
style="mso-list: Ignore">·<SPAN 
style="FONT: 7pt 'Times New Roman'">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; 
</SPAN></SPAN></SPAN>An exchange of grievances regarding the claim and defense 
and identify the issues involved. Formulate problem statements on the issues and 
what needs to be resolved to move towards negotiation.</P>
<P class=MsoNormal 
style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt 0.25in; TEXT-INDENT: -0.25in; mso-list: l1 level1 lfo2; tab-stops: list .25in"><SPAN 
style="FONT-FAMILY: Symbol; mso-fareast-font-family: Symbol; mso-bidi-font-family: Symbol"><SPAN 
style="mso-list: Ignore">·<SPAN 
style="FONT: 7pt 'Times New Roman'">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; 
</SPAN></SPAN></SPAN>Negotiate on the issues until such time as the parties are 
ready to resolve.</P>
<P class=MsoNormal 
style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt 0.25in; TEXT-INDENT: -0.25in; mso-list: l1 level1 lfo2; tab-stops: list .25in"><SPAN 
style="FONT-FAMILY: Symbol; mso-fareast-font-family: Symbol; mso-bidi-font-family: Symbol"><SPAN 
style="mso-list: Ignore">·<SPAN 
style="FONT: 7pt 'Times New Roman'">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; 
</SPAN></SPAN></SPAN>Reaching agreement, discussing BATNA, not yet ready to 
resolve (schedule a follow-up session and outline what will be mediated).</P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><o:p>&nbsp;</o:p></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt">Discrimination cases are at times 
a question of economics but underestimating or ignoring the legal issues 
involved in these cases is risky to reach the point of negotiating 
resolution.<SPAN style="mso-spacerun: yes">&nbsp; </SPAN>With attorneys present 
encourage client’s attorneys to discuss their legal themes and differences they 
have with the others case to expose issues which impact their willingness to 
negotiate. If the attorneys and their clients have decided their client is to 
take the lead listen to their grievances. When clients only speak there is a 
risk that there are unstated legal based differences which will impact not only 
a willingness to negotiate but potentially doom the mediation. In addition 
recitation of grievances in these types of cases often take on a tone of being 
personal with increasingly global attacks on character creating further 
resentment and building intransigence in positions. One last thought on the 
benefits of flushing out the respective legal basis in workplace discrimination 
cases is that these discussions also create a framework around which to base and 
focus the discussion, but that may be a topic for further discussion in a future 
blog entry.<SPAN style="mso-spacerun: yes">&nbsp; </SPAN></P>
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